I saw it in your eyes
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bemygoodday
bemygoodday
BeMyGoodDay
2008-06-24 10:41 am
Slash Meme

Stolen from [info]4am_secret

Teh Big Slash meme
Read and/or write?Both
Since when?Reading since... `04... started writing in `05, but only REALLY got into writing in the past year.
How did you stumble into slash?Melanie threw Along the Lines of Fate and Disaster in my face and I became addicted. It's probably fortunate that I had such an amazing first fic to read. Nyde will remain one of my favorite authors always even if she doesn't write fic anymore. There were A LOT of terrible things I could have read as a first fic that most likely would never have caused the hunger for more I developed.
Your first fandom and pairing:First fandom... I don't think I really participated in fandom until Hyde/Gackt.
The first person you told about your new hobby:Mel. But I don't know if she counts since she linked me that fic. So... who did we tell next? Kim, Kyle, and Ian. lol, I don't know who. Probably all of them at once one of the many times we were dying of heat stroke in Ian's room!
The fandoms you read:I pretty much only read HP, I rarely stray from Harry/Draco.
The fandoms you write:I've written Haitsu, Harry/Ron, and Harry/Draco... but in the past year it's ALL been Harry/Draco
Your favourite pairings:um.... isn't it obvious by now? H/D, yo!
Favourite genres:First time, PWP, Auror fic, house mates, hurt/comfort, UST, humor, angst...
Least favourite pairings:Harry/Hermione. Just... Fuck NO.
Least favourite genres:M-preg, Established Relationship, Creature fic... there is at least ONE exception to each of these however.
What makes a story good?The writing. A good writer can take the worst idea ever and turn it into something I would read. It's about description, character building, and not diving into anything without giving some form of foreshadowing.
What makes a story bad?Poor grammar, too many spelling errors. WHEN PEOPLE USE WORDS INCORRECTLY! (drives me nuts), Major Fluff, pet names... my god! the pet names need to stop! No build-up/background. When someone is writing NC-17 but very obviously have no idea how sex works. I've read too many slash fics written by 14 y/o girls who didn't do their research and don't understand the operations of a penis. If it's boring. I've read fics where I would have reather killed myself than finish reading them because I felt like it was sucking my soul away.
The best author:There isn't just one. Nyde, like I said, I will always love. Maya (mistful), Dysonrules, faithwood, softly_sweetly, furiosity, pyr8fancier, Professor McKitten, charlottesometimes, oldenuf2nobetter (oldenuf2nb), Alaana Fair, Emma Grant, Kerry Blaze(auntie mame), shocolate, mirabella and... more! Some of these people don't write anymore, or write pairings I don't read anymore, but they are all really good.
Why?They consistently (while involved in fandom) put out well thought out, well written works.
The best story you've ever read:I don't know... That is very difficult. Before Peace by Furiosity, Drop Dead Gorgeous by Maya (WIP), Shadow of His Wings by Mirabella, Along the Lines... by Nyde (abandoned, but left off in an acceptable place), On Daftness by tracy_loo_who & sexts... there a more.. but I don't want to take too long doing this!
The worst author:usually if a fic is bad I just move on and forget about it and the author, there a couple I know I don't care for, but I wouldn't necessarily say they are the worst, so I won't say.
Why?it's usually overly sappy, filled with mistakes, or BORING AS ALL GET OUT.
The worst story you've ever read:Actually... I found the boring story worse than both the skullfuck fics I've read. That's how boring it was.
The best story you have written:I don't know. I think Draco Smiles from an artistic viewpoint, but I think my favorite to read anytime is Mixed Signals.
The worst story you have written:Almost all of the ones I wrote in `05 save for Green and Spanish Summer. I think the rest were pretty bad that year :/
Do you leave feedback?As often as I can
Do you get feedback?I do, I wish sometimes I would get more con-crit, because I want to learn from my mistakes, but I get a lot of "I like this" with no explanation type responses.
Do you have a favorite kink?I don't have a favorite, my kinks rotate. I'm even a little ashamed to say that for a brief period in time I had a hard core watersports kink because of a fic I read that included it unexpectedly... but made it so hot. I'm pretty much always game for a bit of scratching, hair pulling, gender bending, first time, body worship, nipple play, rimming, biting, edging, orgasm denial. This one is unique to HP fics, but Parseltongue/Parselsmut... F-yes.
Does something squick you?M-preg. blood play, extreme violence, death/torture, rape
Is slash simply sex?No
Is slash a way of life?I don't know if I would say that.
How much time do you spend reading/writing?Too much!
Do you have RL friends who slash?*gives a shout out to Mel* WooT!
Have you made online friends through slash?yes!
Do you think slash is just a phase?no, even if I stop reading/writing fic at some point... slash in itself is a kink I will never lose.
Could you simply stop slashing?no
What do you think about...
Ratings G to PG-13Okey-Dokey
Ratings R to NC-17yes
AUsalright
ARssure
Crackficsif it's actually funny and not just random for the sake of being random
Pornyes
Angst*nod*
Mush*gag*
Love
Romancenon-sappy makes me happy! (ha ha)
BDSMin some cases
Darkficsnot really for me
Deathficsmost cases is an adamant NO... but I've read a couple that were OK.
Non consensual/rapeonly if it's pertinent to the story, occurs 'off camera', or turns out to be role play
Rape recoverysometimes
FPSYes (HP!)
RPSI used to really like it (Haitsu, Hyde/Gackt), but I've read less and less lately.
RPGI never got into it.
First timesYEP YEP
Established relationships... occasionally
Threesomesrarely. I like my loves to love eachother and no-one else.
m/m slashum... this is rhetorical, right?
femmeslashyes
Slashing a children's book/movieLoL
Chanslash not really. I admit to reading one or two that were hot... but the things that made them hot had nothing to do with the chan-ness
Explicit sexI like two scoops with a cup of plot.
The importance of charactarizationhigh.
OOCnessits okay sometimes, but it can't be just TOTALLY off the mark, otherwise, what's the point?
Canonshould be incorporated.
FanonI agree with Mel. I LOVE Fanon!Draco.
Clicheseh. not so much.
Supernaturalrarely (btw, I don't consider supernatural and HP magics the same thing)
MPREG*runs screaming*
Wingficsno.
Genderfuck*nods vigourously*
Crossoversnot my bag
Group Slut Ficswhat? You mean orgy fics? maybe? if so... no?
IncestMelanie says: "t ... I don't like it for the sake of being incest. But I am such a sucker for forbidden love, a love that transcends taboo." I say: I concur
May/Decemberdepends on who it is. again, I agree with Mel, Hyde/Hiroki is hot.
Het pairings in a slash ficare ok.
Plothighly recommended (though I suck at it)
PWPssure
WIPsI try not to go there, but then I do... and I get SUCKED IN and it KILLS ME to wait for the next part. kills me.
LJ fics and communitiesI'm all up in it.
Mailing listsnaw
Big Name FansIs a strange concept. I mean... seriously.
Politics in a slash storyI like it in my Auror!fic... but otherwise, not really.
Religion in a slash storyIn the HP fandom I find it intriguing when the characters are exploring their own beleifs, because of the obvious conflicts.
Wake up Gayoh, my F. no.
And finally....
Your pet peeve:pet names, epithets, random gayness, I remember reading a fic once where everyone was a singer-cum-lover or a friend-cum-foe and if I read one more anything-cum-anything I was going to be reading a fic-cum-homicidal on someone's ass.
Your advice to new slashers:Don't be discouraged by the INSANE amounts of horrible fic out there. If you look deep enough, you'll figure out where to get the good stuff.
Your slash wish list:Um... I'm pretty satisfied with the stuff I find.
The best slash archive:PSA & The Hex Files
The worst slash archive:FF.net, I don't think they recommend a beta or something... because a lot of it is pretty sloppy.

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BeMyGoodDay
2008-06-19 09:46 am
Fic: Boy Who Cried Potter - 2

Title: Boy Who Cried Potter - 2
Author: [info]bemygoodday
Word Count: 1,900 (this part)
Rating: NC-17
Summary: After Draco fails the Dark Lord he hides from his past in the last place anyone would think to look-- the muggle world.
Warning(s): No beta
Note: This story is based off of the request [info]tmkline made.
Disclaimer: This story is based on characters and situations created and owned by JK Rowling, various publishers including but not limited to Bloomsbury Books, Scholastic Books and Raincoat Books, and Warner Bros., Inc. No money is being made and no copyright or trademark infringement is intended.

A/N: Summaries are so totally not my forte, so if anyone can think of a better one while reading this story at any point, let me know!

Prologue :: Chapter 1

( Boy Who Cried Potter )

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BeMyGoodDay
2008-06-17 10:57 pm
A day of firsts

Today was my first Doctors appointment of the year. Also... my first pap and breast exam. AWKWARD! She kept trying to reassure me that she wasn't putting anything big or weird in there... but that wasn't my issue. My issue was... she didn't buy me dinner. I just don't like the idea of the first person to ever see me being a woman twice my age feeling my boobs and sticking Q-tips in my vagina. Call me crazy.

I also had my first HPV shot today and will have another one two months from now, and another one four months from that. WooT.

Also! So me of you know I've been trying to loose weight (and save money) by packing healthy lunched for myself everyday.

Next step is to work out. I've lost 8lbs since I began packing lunches and it's time to kick it up a notch.

Most people who have known me or read my journal for the last few years know that my weight is a constant issue and has been a life long struggle for me. I've pretty much tried every diet out there and I've been active, but for some reason I can't seem to manage my weight. Over the past year I've become a lot less active, and it shows. I'm going to begin working out a MINIMUM of a half hour a day, five days a week. My goal is to loose 95lbs by this time next year. I know that sounds like a lot of weight, it seems like a lot to me too... but according to the chart my doctor gave me... losing 95lbs will put me smack in the middle of the healthy weight zone according to my height. In the interest of not turning into some weight obsessed crazy, I have also decided that if I become happy with my size before I reach my target weight, I will stop there. Weight isn't everything.

So! I stole this nifty little ticker from a friends journal and am planning on employing it to track my weight loss. I'm also hoping that posting this in my public journal will keep me interested in doing this. So that everyone can see my progress. I will now post a few pictures so you get an idea of my size. Along with my stats, which I will be updating once a month. For a year. So... 12 posts with my weight and pictures once a month to catalog my progress. Here we are. Number One:

Pics and data under the cut! )

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Current Location: Home
Current Mood: determined
Current Music: Orgasm Addict - Buzzcocks

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BeMyGoodDay
2008-06-13 03:07 pm
Fic: Boy Who Cried Potter - 1

Title: Boy Who Cried Potter - 1
Author: [info]bemygoodday
Word Count: 2,000 (this part)
Rating: R (Draco is a potty mouth!)
Summary: After Draco fails the Dark Lord he hides from his past in the last place anyone would think to look-- the muggle world.
Warning(s): No beta
Note: This story is based off of the request [info]tmkline made.
Disclaimer: This story is based on characters and situations created and owned by JK Rowling, various publishers including but not limited to Bloomsbury Books, Scholastic Books and Raincoat Books, and Warner Bros., Inc. No money is being made and no copyright or trademark infringement is intended.

Please read the Prologue first!

( Boy Who Cried Potter )

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BeMyGoodDay
2008-06-12 01:07 pm
Well... that kind of made my day!

I shouldn't be doing this while at work... but...

A lady that I work with just came to my office and said:

"Hey, I was thinking about you. You are an awesome and unique person. Don't ever change your ways, no matter what anyone else says. There aren't many people like you around, so stick with it!"

Then she just... kind of left. I said thanks and she just shouted that she loved me back and then the guy down the hall told her to keep her private feelings private.

Weird, but also pretty great, and kind of brightened my day.

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BeMyGoodDay
2008-06-09 01:42 pm
Fic: To Get Where We Are - Chapter 3

Title: To Get Where We Are - Chapter 3
Author: [info]bemygoodday
Word Count: 2,200 (this part)
Rating: R (this part for violence and language)
Summary: Harry is going through Auror training and trying to figure out where he wants to be in ten years.
Warning(s): DH spoilers, EWE
Note: This story is loosely inspired by another story I wrote titled 'All You Want'. Someone had left me a comment to it saying they would like to see the results of Harry finally deciding what he wanted to do with his life, and doing it, instead of just doing the things expected of him. This is my take on that.
Disclaimer: This story is based on characters and situations created and owned by JK Rowling, various publishers including but not limited to Bloomsbury Books, Scholastic Books and Raincoat Books, and Warner Bros., Inc. No money is being made and no copyright or trademark infringement is intended.
Previous: Chapter 1 :: Chapter 2

( To Get Where We Are )

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BeMyGoodDay
2008-06-08 10:04 pm
Take-away art

Mel and I went out for some Mexican today before we went to go see Prince Caspian again.

I've always had a habit of drawing pictures on my take away boxes, this one was a good time and I thought I would share!



Between lunch and the movie we went to the mall and we were only inside for a few minutes and when we entered it was clear and blue skies. On our way out, the lights were flashing and when we finally got to the doors we saw we were having a freaking MONSOON outside. No kidding. The tornado sirens were going off and peoples car alarms were freaking out. We got soaked in a flash and I spent the whole movie with soggy socks (-_-)

Current Location: Home
Current Mood: tired
Current Music: Boys Like Girls - Hero Heroine

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BeMyGoodDay
2008-06-06 01:50 pm
Fic: Boy Who Cried Potter

Title: Boy Who Cried Potter - Prologue
Author: [info]bemygoodday
Word Count: 2,100 (this part)
Rating: PG-13 (this part)
Summary: After Draco fails the Dark Lord he hides from his past in the last place anyone would think to look-- the muggle world.
Warning(s): Mention of violence (this part)
Note: This story is based off of the request [info]tmkline made about a month ago asking for a fic that takes place immediately after HBP, with a handful of other plot points. I took it on because it sounded like a challenge and my muse was on vacation. Oi vey- yes, a challenge. This is what I came up with, hopefully it works for [info]tmkline at the least! I probably should have two WIP's out there at once, but this one is about finished and fairly short (for a chaptered fic), so I think it's safe to begin posting!
Disclaimer: This story is based on characters and situations created and owned by JK Rowling, various publishers including but not limited to Bloomsbury Books, Scholastic Books and Raincoat Books, and Warner Bros., Inc. No money is being made and no copyright or trademark infringement is intended.

( Boy Who Cried Potter )

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BeMyGoodDay
2008-06-06 10:16 am
Nicely Done!

JK Rowling did a commencement speech for Harvard Graduates this year and I found it to be inspirational in it's own right and not just for those graduating from Harvard or anywhere else this season. If you have the time, I would suggest reading it. In a strange way it meant something to me, the same way 'Letters to a Young Poet' did when I first read it. There is something about advice given that always makes me feel good.

Anyhow, I've included the speech under this cut. You can see a video of it @ Harvard dot com.

Every Friday should start with a bit of inspiration )


Happy Friday!!!

Current Location: Work
Current Mood: impressed
Current Music: Hadlebars - Flobots

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